Wednesday, December 30, 2009

A Special Gift....





A day or two before Christmas, I was visiting mama at the retirement center, and this was sitting on her table.  A gift from one of the other residents.  I thought it was so cute.  It's a roll of toilet paper!  

In these hard times, we'll all be needing a lot of this stuff!  Click to read the message! 


So thanks to mama's secret santa! 

Monday, December 28, 2009

Our Christmas Day 2009

Update on mama.....

Mama stayed in the hospital from Sunday morning until Tuesday.  Monday I came down with the same virus she had so we were both down!  Mama got well quickly, I think because she had all the I.V. fluids.  I was sick a day or two longer, but we are both well now!  

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Christmas morning started quietly with the sound of my cell phone alerting me to a text message.  It was 5:21 am.

I staggered out of bed and read the wonderful news that my son David's friend's wife had just had a baby girl.  I turned my phone to silent, climbed back in bed and pulled up the covers.  

We have a family tradition around here.  Russell cooks a big breakfast of pancakes, bacon, sausage and anything else any one wants.  This year it was going to be just the two of us, so we were going to skip the big breakfast and save our appetites for Christmas dinner.  

Russell got up and opened the garage door to go out and retrieve our paper and  David was waiting in the driveway.  

NOTE:  Our garage key pad isn't working or David would have just come in and gotten in bed in the guest room.  

Anyway, we decided to have our big breakfast after all.  So we enjoyed Russell's cooking, then had our second Christmas with David opening his presents. Here are a few pictures.  He's our family clown so it took a few to get him to just pose normally!




 

 

Finally, I got him to pose in somewhat of a normal position!



He was exhausted by this time and went home to sleep for a while (the whole day).


Nephew Patrick and wife Kristen dropped in to visit.  It was nice to catch up with them and you can see Jack was thrilled!




Then it was casseroles in the oven and getting ready to have our annual Christmas dinner at my brother's home.

When we arrived, mama was all settled in the recliner, the queen in the midst of her court!  



My sister, Debbie with her son Joshua.



Nephew Chris and Kayla


Christina, home from college on her Christmas break was trying to catch a nap!



My big brother, Tommy.


My nephew carving the turkey.


My great niece Amanda....she loves her family!  And we love her!  She is currently being courted by several universities.


My nephew Don and his wife Kathleen



We had two heaters going for those who like to stay outside....like my bil Dick.





Our host and hostess Tommy and his wife Lois.




Some of the children gathered around Poppy (Dick) and Mike.




My nephew and his wife, Dickie and Joneida




BIL Mike and sister Debbie....


My niece and her husband, Debbie and Mike....We have a lot of Debbie and Mikes and just Mikes around our family!



My nephew Mike, his wife Jenny and daughter Abby



Jenny and her sister Carrie



SIL with three of her granddaughters, Christina, Lauren and Amanda



Russell and me



After dinner, the jump rope contest began....first with the children, but soon the adults joined in too!




My nephew Andy and his daughter Lauren




Sister Debbie, me and Sister Cathy




Wow, what a day!  Russell and I said our goodbyes and headed home.  I put my pajamas on and got into my bed!  There I stayed for the rest of the night, relaxing and watching t.v. 

Monday, Matt flew back in from his trip to Minnesota.  Being the good boy he is, he went to work this morning!  When he's home, our local pharmacy always asks him to work.  That boy will work!  Of course, he likes to have spending money. 

So we bid goodbye to another Christmas and look forward to a new year. 


Seriously, it's coming....

A new post is coming soon......well....as soon as I can get blogger to download my pictures a bit faster.

It's quiet today which is a good thing.  I MUST take down the Christmas stuff.  After Christmas day, I'm over the tree and othere decorations and want to get my house clean....and organized.  Oh, but the organization thing, that's just my own personal fantasy!

See you real soon!

Friday, December 25, 2009

It's Christmas morn!






Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve past and present....



We seldom have snow here in sunny Florida.....but on the Christmas Eve, 1989, we had a bit of snow fall.  We also had a family tragedy, and learned that blessings come in many forms.

The following is taken from the magazine Signs of the Times...March 1990 edition.....

And early morning fire swept through the Freeman Electric Company, Panama City, FL, on Christmas Eve causing an estimated $350,000 damage.  It took 26 firefighters nearly three hours to quell the blaze, hampered by 2 -3 inches of snow and record cold temperatures.

Our family is often stubborn, always there for each other and the community and with God's help, resilient.  Here is more of the story as told in the magazine....


Despite the bleak prospects for Christmas, J.T. Duncan, owner of the electric sign company, (and my daddy)says that the assistance of the local business community - including help from rival sign companies - turned this mishap from personal tragedy to community triumph.

Freeman Electric Co. founded in 1936, was started as a neon sign shop by the late H.O. Freeman with the help of J.T. Duncan.  Since Freeman's death in 1980, Duncan, with his wife Margaret, (and my mama) has owned and operated the company.  

At the time this happened, my three brothers and one grandson worked in the business.

The immediate concern of my parents was the safety and welfare of family members and employees.  My mama was quoted, we're just so thankful that on one was hurt or killed.  

Mama also noted that daddy had spent the better part of his life building that company.

What strikes me the most, then and now, was how much my daddy was loved and respected in this community.  People came together and helped in whatever ways they could.  One local businessman donated the use of his building, rival companies offered the use of their equipment and right after Christmas, business was up and going again.

There were $60,000 worth of signs ready to roll out the door when the fire happened.  All of these signs - and the signs contracted before the fire - have been completed.  They were back in full swing!

There was an open attic in the shop that as children we sometimes (not often) were allowed to climb up to, to look around.......things were there that could never be replaced.  Copies of the magazine I've quoted from, from as far back as 1937 were all destroyed.

Some of my nephews Christmas "Santa" presents were there too. .....so on Christmas eve, leaving the ashes of their business, some were out trying to replace gifts. There were heavy hearts all around.

I do not tell this story to be one of sad or woefulness, but of joy........joy that what we thought might well kill our daddy, just showed his strength, and WHO his strength was, in a time of trouble.  His faith that all would be o.k. with God's help.

Some months later, they reopened in their brand new building, same location!  One thing that did not burn was the big safe in daddy's office.  I don't know what was in that safe, but probably some important documents!

Frankly, now that I think about it, I don't remember our actual Christmas day that year.

This is a portion of the actual article. 



That was Christmas past 20 years ago.  The business is still going, Daddy's gone on to heaven and we will get together as a family tomorrow and celebrate Christ's birth!

Last weekend, three of our kids were home, so we celebrated with them as they are gone in different directions.  One will come tomorrow and one is in California along with the grands!  So there will be more pictures!



 


 
Merry Christmas Eve to all and know that whatever befalls you, God is right there! 






Wednesday, December 23, 2009

It'll be a blue sick Christmas around here.....


On the days leading up to Christmas 2009

Oh, how do I begin to tell a story probably best left untold???  Probably at the beginning.  If nothing makes sense in this post, remember I am out of my sick bed writing as I wait for my sheets to finish drying!  Again..


After a nice weekend with three of our children, Sunday morning, the 20th of December, I got a call from the retirement home where my mother lives saying she had been sick all night (I'll spare you the goriest of details) and that she needed to go to the hospital.

I got there to see how sick indeed she was, and asked the nurse call the paramedics.  She had been sick so long (just about 12 hours) that she wouldn't even respond to questions.  Of course, when I got her virus a few days later I understood why she didn't respond, she couldn't!

We got her to one of our local hospitals and right into the isolation room in the ER.  At this point, I want to stop and applaud a young male nurse named Josh for his kind, caring manner as he quickly began treating my mama with the utmost dignity in a very undignified situation!  Quite often, people treat the elderly like they are non persons and speak right over them, but not Josh!  He talked to my mother and even when I had to give the answers, he still kept looking right at her as if she were giving the answers!  My brother and I were with mama and upset and he soothed us in the process!

The ER doctor was great too!  He had on the neatest belt with any and everything you could think of in pockets hanging from the belt.  He told my brother that he had been in Iraq and when you're a doctor in the field, you have to have what you need because you can't just buzz the nurse and tell him/her what to bring!  They very quickly and efficiently took all the samples they needed and decided to admit mama because she was so very dehydrated.  It was the quickest admit I've ever seen from an ER.

Soon she was in her room with fluids being given and medicines started.  We were with her most of the day, but finally realized that we couldn't stay all night and be any use to anyone.  One of the caregivers she has at the retirement home came to stay the night, allowing us to go home! 

On December 21st, I packed my ice chest, book bag and snacks and headed up to the hospital to find that mama had a roommate!   Admitting told us this would stay a private room, but I guess circumstances overruled that decision.  Mama was much better, so I helped her eat breakfast and settled down to spend the day, when all of a sudden what should I hear?????  Sounds of my own stomach rumbling in my ear!!!

Again, I will spare you the gory details and just say, I grabbed my stuff....dialing mama's main caregiver to see if she could get someone up to the hospital........literally, almost, ran into the doctor and her nurse.....begged them to take care of her until someone could get there and drove home at speeds far exceeding the limits! 

The rest of that day is a blur!  Matt was leaving to fly to Minnesota and I didn't want him to get near me.  He kept coming to my door asking if there was anything he could do....sweet, thoughtful child!!  He would put a glass of gingerale outside the door.....and plastic bags...(oh, sorry, that's part of the goriness).

Mama's home from the hospital.....I'm still sick.....all her caregivers except one are sick....most of the residents are sick.....and so ladies and gentlemen, let's hope tomorrow is a better day!   

Friday, December 18, 2009

Happy Birthday sweet Grady!

Today Grady turns one!  This year has flown by and he's grown into such a sweet and handsome toddler!  Everyone loves him, but no one as much as his mama and daddy! 

Grady, you have a very Happy Birthday and have many more adventures in the year to come!

We love you!!!